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Many must have thought that their subconscious mind is of no use especially those with rational thoughts and behavior. This post will tell you how you are being influenced by your subconscious mind in the absence of your thoughts.  Many years ago I was in a terrible bowling accident. My friends and I were at the tail end of a heated tiebreaker, and I was so focused on making a great show of my final shot—leaping into action, loudly declaring my impending victory, dancing and twirling my way through my approach—that I didn’t realize where my feet were when I let go of the ball. [You are a victim of the rules you live by.— Jenny Holzer; artist,thinker, blurter of brilliance] This was the moment I was to learn how serious the bowling community is about penalizing those who roll with one toe over the line. They pour oil or wax or lube or something unimaginably slippery all over the alley, and should someone accidentally slide out of bounds while attempting the perfect hook shot, she wi...

This isn’t a story, not myth but a psychological test on how to understand the universe. The evolution, the moon the skies all have things to do with your general life span and behavior. The place you dwell, energy convergence in your community all have things to do with you. Do you wanna know? Don't stray! "If you want to find the secrets of the universe, think in terms of energy frequency and vibration". Nokola Tesla; inventor,physicist, supergenius. When I lived in Albuquerque, New Mexico, my friends and I used to hangout at this western bar called Midnight Rodeo. It was the kind of place that had curling irons and hair spray in the women’s bathroom, Bud Light on permanent special for two bucks a can, and a solid oak dance floor the size of a cornfield. We were all from the East Coast and were way too cool for country music, so at first we’d go just to snootily make fun of it all, taking great pride in being the first to spot a particularly gigantic belt buckle or a co...

  What We Are Talking about When We Talk about Mindfulness: Let’s start with the first question:  What is mindfulness? The definition of mindfulness that seems to resonate most within the movement—just typing in the whole definition into Google resulted in 15,400 hits—is one that Kabat-Zinn coined, almost in passing, in the first pages of his 1994 book Wherever You Go, There You Are:  Mindfulness is “paying attention in a particular way:  On purpose, in the present moment, and non-judgmentally. Maybe an example will help to show what is meant by this. The author of that 2014 Time Magazine’s cover story, Kate Pickert, opens her article with a  description of a popular beginner’s mindfulness exercise—how to eat a raising mindfully: The raisins sitting in my sweaty palm are getting stickier by the min-ute. They don’t look particularly appealing, but when instructed by my teacher, I take one in my fingers and examine it. I notice that the raisin’s skin glistens. Loo...

I remember a friend who told me how, on their anniversary, he surprised his wife by decorating their apartment with roses, real ones. There were rose bouquets, rose banners, rose petals in the wine ice bucket everything. When his wife came home, she was shocked then she started sneezing uncontrollably. Too late, my friend realized his wife was allergic to certain kinds of flowers, and those roses were one of them. Then she told him: “Thank you, but if you love me, please get rid of all these flowers.” And for the rest of the night, he hauled roses out of their apartment while his wife had to spend the night at a friend’s house. When Love Goes Unappreciated Have you ever given a huge show of love to a woman, like buying her an expensive gift, or doing her a huge favor that took a lot of effort, or giving her a big hug but she didn’t seem to appreciate it nearly as much as you expected her to? That’s painful. And it’s inexplicable you can’t explain why she would NOT appreciate something ...

What’s the meaning of life? What’s the point of it all? You might have asked yourself this question a few times in your life. And even if you might have found a possible answer to that question, it just leaves you with even more questions. Is a man’s life all about women? If it were, then why are so many single men monks, priests, and voluntary celibates some of the happiest men in the world? And why are so many married men some of the most miserable men in the world? Maybe it’s not women. Maybe a man’s life is all about success? So many men today are trapped in endless pursuits of success. And when they do achieve success, they find out it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. Some extremely successful men are so unfulfilled they end up killing themselves. So maybe it’s not success either. Maybe a man’s life is all about happiness? A mountain of scientific study has shown that the more you pursue happiness, the more miserable you become. It’s all because of a fact that’s supposed to be obv...

The dating stage is the essential comfort-building stage in the courtship process. It’s where your “game” comes into play. Your goal should be to give her such a great experience dating you she goes and tells her friends: “There’s something about him I can’t explain it I’ve never felt like this before in my life.” Keep in mind that when a woman agrees to go on a date with you, it means she already sees you as an option. You’re a potential lover. so don’t blow it! The first rule of the first date is to NOT plan anything extravagant and instead keep things simple and straightforward. Here are a few things you should NOT do on the first date: Don’t take her to a dinner, coffee, or similar situation where you just talk and do nothing else. I call this the “sales pitch” date, and it’s as boring as it sounds. Don’t take her to a concert or a movie. In some ways, these can be worse than “sales pitch” dates because you can’t even talk it’s too loud. Don’t take her on a lunch date that’s a stra...

How many healthy and successful relationships do you see out there? In the UK, 40% of marriages end in divorce. In the US, it’s even worse 50% of marriages don’t last ‘til death do they part. Worst of all, these staggering statistics don’t even count the toxic relationships couples who stay together “for the kids” or simply because they can’t afford the divorce costs. Why are so many relationships so unhealthy and unsuccessful?.   Two reasons: First, the world suffers from a lack of real men. Fathers and husbands aren’t “showing up.” They’re not taking responsibility. And their kids grow up not knowing what it takes to lead a happy, successful relationship and so the cycle infects their generation, too. Now, if you did all the exercises in Part I of this book, then this reason shouldn’t be a problem for you. You’re on your way to becoming a real man, and as long as you stay on the rails, you’ll do fine. It’s the second reason you’ll need to worry about now. Before you read this, yo...