3 Things Your Girl Always Wants From You And How To Do It Like A Badass

One of the things your girl will ultimately demand from you without any cost are the listed things here... The things you do that will make your girl want to be with you at all time and at all cost no matter the circumstances  are the three things listed here. Your girl will never leave you if these things are your watch words and your daily mantra. You wanna know? Don't stray!!!

Treat her like a queen 

Let us move onto what we like hearing. I’m not discussing all these topics because I like to hear myself think. Though it is quite nice sometimes. Really, I think all men could learn from these dating suggestions brought to you by a female. That being said when I was dating I loved it when the guy paid attention to me, and only me. Try not to stare at the waitress, or the butt of the girl in front of you on the street. Treat your lady like a queen. 

Because chivalry has sadly started to die. Eight out of ten times I have to struggle with a door with my hands full while guys wait behind me “slyly” ignoring my existence. Open any, or all doors for your lady. Now if they don’t want to have a door opened for them, don’t. They could be control-freaks (I am only slightly referring to myself), or have an independence about them. The great thing about communication by messages before a date is the fact it allows you to figure out these things before a date. That is if you are a skilled socializer. We can’t all be like Ellen Degeneres or Jennifer Lawrence. But if you aren’t good at talking (it takes the time to become skilled at small talk, I sucked at it for the longest time) and find yourself getting nervous. Just ask people questions, get them talking about themselves for as long as possible, and actually listen. 

Because this is when you find out the most you can about someone. And, like I said before we all love to talk about ourselves, there just might be different modes of going about it that we enjoy more.

So when you first meet your lady on the very first date, try to get a good look at her. Don’t be a creep about it by walking up to her and smelling her hair, or saying, “I like your face.” It could sound cute depending on who you are, but in general, it just sounds scary, like the guy from Hannibal. We don’t want our face removed... Just find something about her appearance that looks as if she put some real effort into, or seems to love. She might have worked really hard on her outfit, or her hair. These are usually fair game. If she is a casual gal we tend to love our favorite pair of shoes, jacket, or jeans that we never leave the house with. Commenting on the attire without trying to notice our boobs, cleavage, or how short the skirt might be will give you points. 

One I think that never can go wrong is, “Your eyes are lovely.” Cookie points if you can find a discerning feature about them that make them lovely. The point of all these is to try and look for those details that usually go unnoticed. Those are the compliments that really hit home.

Make her laugh no matter what

Say you’re a bad talker. That is okay. Everything takes practice. If you feel most comfortable making jokes (which usually is me when I feel extremely awkward and want to make myself laugh) and if it makes you feel better, making someone smile, do it. Seriously. Most people who I know love to laugh and smile. Not only does it make you look more attractive, but also more appealing. If you are or seem to be a carefree, happy-go-lucky kind of person that you will be surprised by the amount of appeal you end up giving off.

Now how do you make her laugh? Well, there are times to joke and time to have fun. On the first date it one of the best times to make her laugh when she is down and needs to smile when she has had a bad day are all good times. The times not crack a joke would be if she is talking about her cat just dying, or well death, in general, is never a good time. Usually always too soon. One article I read the other day was talking about making a girl laugh by calling her fat (even though she worked out all the time, ) or a stupid blonde (even though she wasn’t a blonde and instead had a 4.0 GPA). This, my friend, will not work. At least for most girls, I know, they would grow tired of this façade after a good few months if you last that long. If you take this guys technique you not only look like a jerk but a jerk who doesn’t know how to appreciate the beauty he has. 

Personally, I think if you take the time to care and get to know the girl you are with then it will be far more likely to work out on down the road.

Get responses back no matter what

You know how to compliment her, how to make her smile and laugh, but it won’t mean anything if you don’t get a message back in the first place. Obviously, a message consists of a couple different factors: your picture, your subject line, and your body (no not that body, the body of you message). One great thing about OkCupid is that it tells you when the girl you are interested in is online. So if they are actually sending her an instant message instead the usual inbox message. 

You’ll know that she has seen it which can be helpful and maybe a little unnerving. Like I stated before, sorry love, but you probably aren’t the only person sending her messages, especially if she is cute. The messages work as a ratio 80/20 for girls and guys. Sorry lover boys, it sucks but it’s the sad truth. Go into this message thinking you aren’t the only candidate and because of this, you will likely try harder. Not in the sense of overthinking it, but by really delving into your clever side. You have friends, right? What do they like most about you? I have one guy friend who has the best facts. He is so knowledgeable about every little thing. Like, did you know you sneeze at a hundred miles per hour? Maybe that is why most of us can’t open our eyes when we sneeze. 

This is really interesting, and peaks at curiosity. And is also a great first liner. It isn’t the generic “hey gorgeous,” or, “’Sup beautiful”. After a while, these messages blur together in a sea of similarities. You won’t stand out with these. I remember I once messaged someone with, “Wow.” That was it. Because it was so simple and subtle it ended up being answered. If you use this…please…please don’t say after, “Did you fall out of the heavens cause you look like an angel.” 

Cute, but really? A pickup line I am sure she has heard at least once in her life. Be original.